What changed in our homeschool is that I stopped chasing after the perfect program for each subject. I looked at the homeschool methods that I was drawn to. I knew that the classical (or neo-classical as some would prefer) model laid out in Well-Trained Mind. The stages of the Trivium seemed to make perfect sense to me. Why teach a child by what grade or age he is? Why not teach to the stage of the child's development. Reading Well-Trained Mind was the first time I knew that I could possible homeschool through high school, Lord willing.
Charlotte Mason's methods also appealed to me. I liked a lot of her ideas and the meshed will with the classical model that I liked. The idea of living books that tell the story of people and places instead of dry, boring text seemed like a breath of fresh air.
All I needed now was a plan. I was pregnant with baby #5 and I felt the need for some hand holding.